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Name: Koh Wen Hui Jack
Nick: Jack'al
Age: 16++
Height: 167cm
Weight: 47kg
Citizenship: Singaporean
Occupation: Student
Religion: Christianity
School: Nanyang Polytechnic
Church: NewCreation Church
Affiliation: DARE [Youth Ministry of NewCreation Church], Sound Ministry
Hobby: Sound-engineering, Drumming, Cycling/Blading, Hanging out, Music, Slacking
Books: [which part of me tells you i'm a bookworm]
Movies: [comedy, action] scary movie 4, mr. bean's holiday, rush hour 3, ghost rider, ratatouille, evan almighty
Music: [christian, rock] NewCreation Church Band, Hillsongs, Bon Jovi, Skillet, Dream Theatre, Evanescence, Funeral For A Friend, Killswitchh Engage, The Red-Jumpsuit ApparatusThe All-American Rejects
MSN: dare2serve_christ@hotmail.com
URL: [where u're at now] http://distortrified.blogspot.com & http://distortrified.multiply.com
Friendster: http://www.friendster.com/distortrify
Most of all, I'm the beloved child of the most high God being embraced in the BIG Arms of my Loving Jesus!
He loves me wif His everlasting love...
He clothed me wif His robe of righteousness...
He comforts me wif His unshakeable peace...
He pours out His abundant favor & grace upon me
He blesses me according 2 His riches in Heaven...
He keeps me safe under the shadow of His wings...
All for love a Savior prayed :: Let the cross draw man to You
Salvation is here :: Cause You are alive and You live in me
When I see Him smile :: I can do anything
Monday, November 20, 2006
A Perspective Lifestyle
somehow i just felt inspired of writing this while in the middle of a game of solitaire... it just flashed across my mind so i decided to share it down here... i'm not trying to pin-point anyone so no worries... this just applies to everyone including myself... unless you're not a human being... thank god for blogs
you'll probably have heard the saying that people's life are guarded by their beliefs... these beliefs can be recognized by people from the way you talk, the way you make judgments, the way you respond in critical stressed-up situations, etc etc... they are just subconscious beings that talk in a still small voice iin the back of your mind... and their subtle actions manifest in your actions... interesting eh?
lets give you an illustration here for those who either have really no idea what's going on or are trying to act blur somehow... just kidding... imagine you see someone somewhere digging his nose... isn't it familiar that another who witnesses the act would go "eeeyuckzz!~"... that's because one believes that digging nose is a disgusting act... but do you dare says you never dig your own nose before?!?... digging nose, though disgusting, is something that someone will have to do from time to time... its not comfortable to be walking around with a pebble in your shoe... same thing... its not comfortable to be walking around with a "pebble" in your nose... but honestly who would have thought this way at first?... but looking from another point of view... it is sure a disgusting thing to dig your nose in public... probably do in the toilet or something lah
this is just one simple illustration... but think about the different possibilities and varieties of such categories you have fell under... notice that people are often linear in judging themselves but often strict in judging others... using that previous illustration again... do you say "eeyuckzz!" when you dig your own nose?... but how many times have you say "eeyuckz!" to another person doing the same thing?... again... don't be so narrow-minded and think out of the box
lets give you some more examples here for those who either have really no idea what's going on or are trying to act blur somehow... different people have different characteristics... some brings joy and happiness and laughter to the people around them... some brings spastic illustrations that cause people to think a little and brings distractions... some people bring consular advices... some brings attention to themselves almost all of the time, they better have some good entertainment... and imagine a friend who is down and dull from having a quarrel with his parents, for example... and he wanna let his tears loose at the beach, say east coast park... most probably he'll wanna invite at few people at possible... and most probably he'll wanna invite those friends who would bring consular advices... he would wanna talk with them and let the consular advices turn him around and bring him back to track... on the secondary list, he'll wanna call those people who have prepared a few fresh jokes, people who bring joy and happiness and laughter to him... so imagine the situation is that, firstly, he'll seek consular advices from these friends... then when he is feeling better... he'll call his secondary list of friends to cheer him and lift his head up
now thinking out of the box again... those people who had heard about the trip to east coast park that day and were not invited... their first thought would be feeling damn pang seh... feeling damn left out... and the more they think like that... they more frustrated they feel about their friends... the more insecurity they have... the more he leaves himself out of the group... eh... sounds familiar again?... but looking from these victims' point of view... they may have been invited to some other events or outings but not other friends... and when the other friends show such attitudes... he in turns feels lost towards such attitudes and starts to question why is they are feeling like that
now back to the question... because a certain person or a group of people won't invited to somewhere their other friends went... they start to self-talk to themselves... these self-talk manifests to their beliefs... these beliefs in turns lead to consequences which were often perceived as attitude, but were not realized it was actually out of their own accord
-jack'al
you'll probably have heard the saying that people's life are guarded by their beliefs... these beliefs can be recognized by people from the way you talk, the way you make judgments, the way you respond in critical stressed-up situations, etc etc... they are just subconscious beings that talk in a still small voice iin the back of your mind... and their subtle actions manifest in your actions... interesting eh?
lets give you an illustration here for those who either have really no idea what's going on or are trying to act blur somehow... just kidding... imagine you see someone somewhere digging his nose... isn't it familiar that another who witnesses the act would go "eeeyuckzz!~"... that's because one believes that digging nose is a disgusting act... but do you dare says you never dig your own nose before?!?... digging nose, though disgusting, is something that someone will have to do from time to time... its not comfortable to be walking around with a pebble in your shoe... same thing... its not comfortable to be walking around with a "pebble" in your nose... but honestly who would have thought this way at first?... but looking from another point of view... it is sure a disgusting thing to dig your nose in public... probably do in the toilet or something lah
this is just one simple illustration... but think about the different possibilities and varieties of such categories you have fell under... notice that people are often linear in judging themselves but often strict in judging others... using that previous illustration again... do you say "eeyuckzz!" when you dig your own nose?... but how many times have you say "eeyuckz!" to another person doing the same thing?... again... don't be so narrow-minded and think out of the box
lets give you some more examples here for those who either have really no idea what's going on or are trying to act blur somehow... different people have different characteristics... some brings joy and happiness and laughter to the people around them... some brings spastic illustrations that cause people to think a little and brings distractions... some people bring consular advices... some brings attention to themselves almost all of the time, they better have some good entertainment... and imagine a friend who is down and dull from having a quarrel with his parents, for example... and he wanna let his tears loose at the beach, say east coast park... most probably he'll wanna invite at few people at possible... and most probably he'll wanna invite those friends who would bring consular advices... he would wanna talk with them and let the consular advices turn him around and bring him back to track... on the secondary list, he'll wanna call those people who have prepared a few fresh jokes, people who bring joy and happiness and laughter to him... so imagine the situation is that, firstly, he'll seek consular advices from these friends... then when he is feeling better... he'll call his secondary list of friends to cheer him and lift his head up
now thinking out of the box again... those people who had heard about the trip to east coast park that day and were not invited... their first thought would be feeling damn pang seh... feeling damn left out... and the more they think like that... they more frustrated they feel about their friends... the more insecurity they have... the more he leaves himself out of the group... eh... sounds familiar again?... but looking from these victims' point of view... they may have been invited to some other events or outings but not other friends... and when the other friends show such attitudes... he in turns feels lost towards such attitudes and starts to question why is they are feeling like that
now back to the question... because a certain person or a group of people won't invited to somewhere their other friends went... they start to self-talk to themselves... these self-talk manifests to their beliefs... these beliefs in turns lead to consequences which were often perceived as attitude, but were not realized it was actually out of their own accord
-jack'al
spoken adhesives at 11:15
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